tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5113442.post115010401273779801..comments2023-04-25T22:16:30.004-07:00Comments on Gray Matter: A Happy Ending, A Stumbling BeginningSusan Isaacshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03091876617022681671noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5113442.post-1150997294135440422006-06-22T10:28:00.000-07:002006-06-22T10:28:00.000-07:00Hey Susan, Thank you for being open and honest. Y...Hey Susan, <BR/>Thank you for being open and honest. You cut through the easy-breezy explanations of others so succinctly! ("t's a God Thing!") ...oh, really? How about some Reformed theology: "this is evidence of the Calvinistic belief of The Problem Of Evil." Hmm. <BR/>What matters is having someone with you for the ride. Jesus is with you on your bus, so is Larry, and that is good. Very good. THAT is a God thing. <BR/>Whatever you do, success or no success, money or no money, just keep writing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5113442.post-1150338219514771582006-06-14T19:23:00.000-07:002006-06-14T19:23:00.000-07:00So, I only read the first half, because I actually...So, I only read the first half, because I actually have less patience now than I did before Liz died but I have to add my two cents: Divorces happen over money and sex. Okay. But those things mean different things to everybody. So, you guys have no money. Alrighty. You are going IN to the marriage fully aware of each other's situations and the volatilies of your businesses. Money is usually an issue when one spouse has expectations for the finances and the other can't keep up. But, if you are both on the same page, great.<BR/>Like sex. One wants it, the other doesn't. That is sure to cause problems. But, what if neither of them want sex ever and they are happy living like that? As long as they COMMUNICATE then there is little room for problems.<BR/>Divorces happen not for finances or sex, those are symptoms. Expectations. Divorces happen because the couple doesn't COMMUNICATE what their fears and wories and desires and wants are.<BR/>It would suck for Larry if he married you and then discovered that you had a predilection for all african american gang bangs and couldn't live without cuckolding your husband. It wouls suck for you if, after 3 years, he decided he was gay.<BR/>But, if you guys are open about everything (or as much as you can be...secrets are okie dokie, depending on what they are) then screw the money.<BR/>You wanna get married? Get married. Don't worry about things like finances. Just be honest. This is a non issue. <BR/>Come over. Sit. We'll talk. I've been down this road a couple of times.Allen Luluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12572137416801958769noreply@blogger.com